18 Jan 10 So, You Know How To Love A Man Do You?

Loneliness, loneliness, loneliness. It’s a plague in this world of ours. With billions of people on this planet it’s amazing how many people are lonely. Even for those people who live with others, loneliness is still a major concern. We find that women are often looking for information regarding:

a) How to make a man fall in love with me

b) How to make a man love you and you alone

c) How to love a man and all that he does

d) How to love a guy

e) How to make a man love you forever and ever

Men are different “animals”. Most women realize this, right? How many women have tossed and turned late at night trying to figure men out, and how to show them that they truly care? Are gifts the best and only what that you can show that special guy that you truly do love them? In this article we will be going into this subject matter in great length. We will be exploring the various ways in which you can show him that you truly love him.

Food…

We have heard that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. This is true for many men. Now we won’t go as far as to say that food is the way to make a man fall in love with you, but every man appreciates not only good food, but the thought that goes into the preparation of that special meal.

1) To get the ball rolling we will start with the first meal of the day, which is breakfast. How about making some heart-shaped pancakes? If he’s not into pancakes you could do the same thing with toast. You could go one step further and even trim the butter that will accompany the meal into a heart shape. Heart-shaped butter on heart-shaped pancakes or toast. Yum.

2) Lunch is the next meal of the day. A lot of guys take their lunch from home, and this provides you with a great opportunity to show that you love him. Why not make him his special meal for lunch, and top it off with a note saying “I love you”? Will he ever be surprised…especially when he is looking to unpack that same ole sandwich and such…

3) The evening dinner is the main meal of the day for most people. It’s a time when you can sit back and relax the most during the day. How about a candlelight dinner with some scented candles? Why not play his favorite soothing and romantic music in the background. Be sure that you make his favorite meal to compliment the evening.

4) While snacks can be eaten throughout the day, a romantic snack is very memorable indeed. Did you have a special treat when you started your dating life? How about a delicious ice cream cone and that walk along the lake? Nobody says that you can’t recreate this experience again by “retracing your steps”.

Signs of Affection

Everyone needs to know that people care about them. Men are included in this group ladies! Even those “strong and silent type” guys can get a tear in the eye when they watch a very sad or touching movie. Looking for a way to show that special guy that you love him? Why not try:

1) A hug is a powerful thing, and it says so much. When he least expects it, come up from behind and give him a big bear hug. Why not whisper into his ear “I love you”. Don’t do this all the time so that it gets “old”. Keep is special and random.

2) Listen, plain and simple. So many times when the guy comes home from work his ear falls off from the events of “your day”. He probably wants to relax a bit and not hear all about your woes and worries. Sit back and listen to what he has to say for a change. Instead of trying to change the subject all the time, truly listen, and offer “I’m listening responses”, like “I see” or “Hmmm”…

3) There are some guys who don’t want to talk when they get home from work. They want to unwind. Give them that time. Let them relax and compose themselves. They will probably talk your ear off once they get a chance to relax a bit, but give them their space when they first come home.

4) Guys (at least quite a few of them) love a good relaxing massage. Are you gifted in giving a massage? Why not unleash this talent? Start off with the back, and run your fingers through his hair. Give him every opportunity to tell you what he likes and what he doesn’t like. What a great way to unwind and prepare for the evening…

Romantic Activities

Many men are adventurous and energetic and love to try out new things. They love to test their manliness. Here are a few activities that will show that you love that special guy:

1) Get out of that “box” you have placed yourself in and do something that you would not normally do. Is that special guy in your life into football? Here’s an idea. Sit down on the couch next to him and ask him some questions. Here are a few to get you started. What is a quarterback? What is a first down? He will be shocked at first, but since he loves his sport, he will love providing you with the answers you are looking for. What if he’s not into football, but likes baseball or basketball or hockey? Same approach applies. You might want to do a bit of research beforehand to determine what questions to ask.

2) Does that special guy in your life have chores that he needs to do around the house? Surprise him, and do it for him. Let’s take an example. Suppose he needs to take out the trash every week. You could do it for him and tell him that since he is working so hard you decided to help him out. Make sure that he realizes you are helping him out. He might think that you enjoy doing it so much that you have bought yourself yet one more thing to do around the house…

3) Pillow fight anyone? Most of us have left pillow fights behind with our childhood…back when we used to jump up and down on the bed. Who says we need to leave all the fun behind when we grow up? Here’s a thought. One night, when you are getting ready for bed, hall off and “wallop” him! He’ll be taken by surprise, for sure…but he might get a kick out of it. Be prepared for him to hall off and “wallop” you back. Let the action begin!

Give Him Compliments

We all love to get compliments. We like to hear that others like our clothes, our jewelry, our hair, our “whatever”. Do you know how to compliment a guy? Here are a few ways:

1) Compliment your guy when you are out in public. Say nice things about him. Tell your friends what a special guy he is. Tell them how hard he works and how much he cares. You know, word will eventually get back to him. He will be very happy that all of this finer attributes have been noticed by others.

2) Some guys are really into clothes, and they love to show off their “sense of style”. If that special guy in your life loves clothes, be sure that you notice all his efforts, and doubly make sure that you tell him that you notice. He will appreciate the fact that others, especially you, notice.

3) Is there anything that the man in your life does that you really appreciate? Perhaps a certain chore around the house? Maybe he does the dishes? Maybe he’s good at taking the baby out for a walk? Maybe he makes dinner from time to time? If there is something that he does that you really appreciate, make sure that you let him know.

4) Why not leave little romantic notes in places that he will find them. On the mirror in the bathroom perhaps? Here’s an idea, why not put a note on the steering wheel of his car? He will notice it as he leaves for work. It could say something as simple as “I Love You”. He will be smiling all the way to work.

Buy Him Something

Gift giving is usually reserved for special occasions or holidays. Who says gifts can’t be given at other times? How much more special are those gifts that are given at other times of the year. Let us get you started in your gift giving adventure. We have searched the web and have come up with some gift ideas that we think are very special and unique. How about giving that special man one of these gems:

Our Way Cool Pick #1 – Does that special guy in your life love the great outdoors? Does he like to camp or hunt or fish? I bet you have spent many an hour worrying about them, right? You realize that he might get lost or hurt, why not worry! What can you do? We have found just the gift. Why not get him a “Satellite Messenger”? This is a great little device that we didn’t know even existed. What does it do? Well, let’s illustrate with an example. You man is out exploring the wilderness when he gets lost, or injured. He is outside of cell phone range, so he is stranded. What can he do? How can you find him? The “Satellite Messenger” to the rescue! Weighing in at a mere 8oz, it will not only keep track of his travels, it will keep you informed of his current location and status as well. You can easily locate him, and stop your worrying with this great little device. Considering how much piece of mind it will provide, it’s just as much a gift for you as it is for him. Did you know that Backpacker Magazine gave this device their 2008 Editor’s Choice Award? Check our blog for further details and ordering info.

Way Cool Pick #2 – So what do you get that special man who happens to have everything? Have you been getting him ties and sweaters because you can’t think of anything else? Well, take a look at this gem of a gift idea!!! Think he would be interested in some Fighter Pilot Training? Imagine him being able to experience the adrenaline rush of air-to-air dogfight combat like his hero aces. He will be able to experience the ultimate “natural high” in one of the best military machines that mankind has ever developed. He doesn’t need a pilot’s license for this, and yet he can still experience all the thrills! He’s not into airplanes you say? Well, this company we have found, Great American Days, has you covered. They have a whole list of exciting adventures and experiences, and surely there is one that will “tickle his fancy”. How about a trip up to the edge of space? Does he want to drive a NASCAR? How about spending the day with the team who does underwater training for the Navy SEALs? You should definitely check out all that this company has to offer. Navigate over to our blog for ordering information.

Way Cool Pick #3 – Guys love their cars. They will often tell you of their favorite car. They might not be able to afford one of these cars mind you, but they would like to have one none-the-less. You might not be able to afford one of these cars either, but why not get him the next best thing. DieCast Car Models have been selling exact replicas of cars online since the year 2001. From Fords to Ferraris, from Toyotas to Lamborghinis, from “this car” to “that car”, they seem to have all makes and models. These are not just mere models mind you, they are MODELS. If that special guy in your life is a lover of cars, don’t miss the opportunity to see what this great company has to offer. Check out our blog for more details and ordering information.

The Conclusion of the Matter

We’re going to wrap up this article now. Has it been helpful? Have you been provided with enough examples of how to show that special man that you love him? If you would like more info, check out our blog. It goes into greater detail than we can possibly relay in a single article. If you would like to learn of more wonderful presents for men, or more information on those items we have mentioned above, check out www.WonderfulPresentsForMen.com. For all those UNIQUE Christmas gifts you are looking for, check out: www.ExcellentChristmasList.com.

Have fun loving that man…:)

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